Tuesday, April 22, 2008

== @ The 7th Question @ ==:Who would dare to answer this???^^



As you know,
all of you guys are married except Eunju and me in our class.
And I don't think and believe that your current spouse might be your first love.
Acutally when people talk about their first love,
it looks like they have special sweet feelings about it.
And sometimes they-especially men- cherish it deep in their heart, I heard ^^
I am not saying your first love means much bigger than the current one.
Perhaps you might be caring for your spouse
and might feel that you couldn't live without her or him.

Q : What would you do if you encountered your first love face to face and he or she wanted to talk to you for a while when you were shopping with your spouse? And do you still "love" your husband or wife?(*^^*pls be honest!! And, as you know, 'love' is different from the feeling of "like")

5 comments:

Sammy said...

Hey, Miscelle

Very risky question^^
1. Why not?
2. Not given

Nicole said...

Hi Michelle,
What a daring question. I'll be checking back to read the comments. I'm not married either so I can't answer the question but I think that meeting your past loves is a good test of your current love.

genius said...

Why not?
I will tell my husband and ask him to give me some time to talk with him. I am really looking forward to meeting not only my first boyfriend but many other nice guys I met. Sometimes I miss them. Haha.
Don't worry. Good and many memories make me happy. I am waiting that scenes like romantic movies come true in the near future.

Liz said...

Hi! Actually we talked about the question over lunch yesterday. As I said the answer depends on the situation. I would be happy and talk to the first love first without my husband. I would ignore him with my husband because I don't want to put my husband in the feeling of misery. I know what kind of person my husband is.
I wish I came across my first love without my husband. ^*^

Nature- Jayeon Kim said...

Hi! Michelle!
What an interesting, curious question!! In my opinion a woman doesn't tend to cherish her first love after marriage. I forget my first love unwittingly. Thank you for your reminding my first love of me! If I encounter, I would be very very glad. I don't think I need to get a permission from my husband. I love my husband so much. I chose him as my best spouse almost twenty years ago. There's nothing to regret even if I had a hard time living with him. But my first love must have been a part of my life. He is a valuable memory of my youth like jewalry. Even if my husband doesn't like me to talk with my first love, I would share time in restaurant or in coffee bar. And if he lives near or has some free time, I would introduce him to my husband. I've never seen my first love after we broke up.I just heard a few news through unconfirmed rumors. Now to get married to my husband is my fate.